Being a single person in her 30s is hard. Especially in a conservative and stereotypical setting.
One starts doubting and questioning self. Was staying single worth it? Should I just get married? But is all this compromise really going to be worth it..? Will my “i do” really be the best solution to life’s travails?
And even if they do ask, your cynical self says “I’m ok” – because you ask yourself if they really mean it(?). Does your answer matter to them at all? Being strong is lonely, being strong is painful.
We, all of us are busy living our own life to get a good look at another’s. And sadly its completely understandable. Because if one doesn’t look out for oneself who will?
Its just the way life has become. Its just WHO we have become.
Yes, even we the so-called “believers”. We don’t put others before us. How then can we with any honesty claim to put Christ above all?
You’re looking good? Have you lost weight? You’re looking taller too!
Lost weight? Looking taller? Nothing at all!!
But you’re looking great! Fallen in love?
Love! I’m completely out of love… ‘I’ll never fall in love again!’
Mental PS to myself- 😉 lol!!
Had started with a load of “positive thoughts”.
Crashed on the first day itself!
Despair n heartaches
Just another year to live & exist
Happy New Year to me!